[chelle1109]

So, the Desktop Manager would be included in the disk that came in the box when I bought my pearl right?


And I need to install that, prior to being able to complete an update?

[JSanders]

Yes, but you are better off downloading and installing the most recent version, from this link. Get the Version 4.2, Service Pack 2.
BlackBerry Desktop Manager Downloads - BlackBerryFAQ

Good luck.