I can certainly empathize re: the "not just a phone" perspective. We clearly all regard purchases like this somewhat differently, and shouldn't assume that everyone has to share the same perspective. I tend to want to keep most of my purchases looking and feeling new as long as I can if aesthetics had anything to do with the purchase in the first place. I have a couple of 30 year old Nikons that still look and work like new - and it's not for lack of use - I'm just exceedingly careful about them. My mobile phone collection goes back 15 years, and I have half a dozen gems that look and work like new still - and that's part of what I can enjoy about them.
The reason there's such a hot aftermarket in cases, skins and screen protectors for phone is that I'm not the only one who wants to protect fancy expensive gadgets and keep them looking nice. Most buyers will also wind up living with their phone/BB for 1 to 2 years or more, and many don't have the option to simply replace it if it gets banged up cosmetically. I can easily understand being upset if the finish on my Curve were to start peeling off. The resale value suddenly drops dramatically, and the part of you that was enjoying it for aesthetic value has to abruptly take a back seat to the practical perspective that "it's just a phone" - I would be really upset to see my Curve peeling. If that really was the only consideration, then RIM wouldn't have to bother coming out with new, slicker, prettier housings every year, and people wouldn't be writing extensive threads speculating about the color of the new 8320, or the fit and finish of the LG Prada. It's clear that cosmetics and aesthetics is part of the equation - but it's also clear that we each weight that part of it differently, and we should allow for that and respect it.
Re: the Seidio clip doing the damage: I've been looking at the clip since it came out, and considering ordering it. But the clips I've had in the past have, in fact, marred my other phones - including the hard plastic OEM holster for the 8700, so I was hesitant about this one. I've been following threads like this specifically to see what other people experience before buying one myself. The overall design seems far more finish-friendly than typical aftermarket holsters - but I was, in fact, concerned about the top clip. My understanding from all of this is that the Seidio top clip probably will mar the top of the Curve unless you explicitly lift it each time you pop the phone into the holster. Unfortunately, the rubberized coating on the Curve edges seems to be pretty fragile - as nice as it feels as a grip, it's not an especially robust finish. As Inphektion pointed out, half the reason for a clip is the ease with which you can simply pop the Curve back into it - so it would probably be a bit irritiating to have to worry about lifting the clip first before popping the phone in, and it's probably something that's way too easy to forget to do, since you *can* simply press the Curve into the holster. Much as the holster appeals to me, I have a feeling that I would want to simply press the phone in place and not worry about raising the clip first - and it sounds like I'd wind up with peeling rubber on top, and I'd be annoyed as well.
If I were in Seidio's position, I doubt that I would pull the clip off the market. Seems that there are a number of people who like it, are willing to be careful about raising the clip first and making sure it doesn't contact the top of the phone, and who haven't had any peeling rubber problem. But after reading a number of posts about the potential for the clip to mar the finish if you're not careful about its use, I would put a clear warning on the Seidio website about the potential for this, as well as in the product literature. Nothing fancy - just a note to the effect that the clip *could* mar the rubber coating if you allow it to rub the phone when you're putting it in or taking it out. In the meantime, it appears that Seidio will, indeed, refund purchase price to anyone disappointed in the product, and it's my understanding that this is their general approach to customer relations anyway. It's certainly a shame that people are experiencing peeling rubber on their shiny new Curves, and it would certainly upset me to experience that.
@Rextilleon: I don't know what your options are. For example, you might make a claim with AT&T that the device finish is defective and ask for a replacement. If not, and if you feel strongly enough about this (and I would in your place), I would order a replacement OEM housing such as the one offered here for $29:
bb-8300-05 BlackBerry curve 8300 OEM housing w/silver lens (AT&T)- Samsung, NEC, Acer, Alcatel, Motorola, Sony, HTC, LG, Apple, Tools, Accessories
There's at least one video on YouTube that shows how to dissassemble the Curve, and it doesn't look especially difficult. It's annoying to go through this, but for about $30 and some time, you can get the Curve looking and feeling new again. (although I imagine there might be a warranty issue if the device is opened?). Not a perfect solution, but with Seidio's refund and a new housing, the downside of the experience would be minimized, and your Curve would be like new.
In the meantime, I'm probably going to wait and watch before opting for the Seidio holster for the unskinned Curve. I really appreciate Seidio in general, but it seems that the combination of phone and clip might not be ideal for some of us.