Which version of Desktop Manager did you download? You should download 4.1 or later from
BlackBerry. After you download go through installation make sure you select "Blackberry Enterprise Server"(BES) and take default on the rest. If Desktop Manager does not start up, restart your computer and try it again. Are you on your companys BES server? If not you should see about being added...that way you can sync email as well. Next go to Lotus Notes open your inbox.....click Actions -->Sychronize Address book, this will sync your Blackberry with your address book.
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