Ok, I have browsed through some of the posts, and I see a ton of people wanting to know where they can get 4.1 that ISN'T the Hong Kong version with all of the bugs and the Illegal Exceptions, ablility to use themes only for 4.1 etc, so rather then go through post by post, I searched and didn't see it here, so here is PROVEN 4.1 C&W link for the downloads courtesy of our friends at pinstack.com.
http://blackberryforums.pinstack.com...ighlight=C%26W
Follow this link and it shows where to get the download from and how to properly install 4.1.
If you have any problems, please feel free to ask and I will assist in any way that I can...