These two links pretty much tell you it all:
http://www.blackberry.com/knowledge...bjAction=browse
http://support.microsoft.com/defaul...kb;en-us;841803
If you're not using "Bluetooth Devices" in your Control Panels with the lil' Bluetooth icon in the tray of Windows than you're NOT on the right track. I got mine to work by reading those two links. You can't use "My Bluetooth Places". You can't use "Bluetooth Configuration". ONLY "Bluetooth Devices".
Hope that helps.