[CoDudette]

i am not christian. i am a hindu, and according to hindu beliefs, having sex before you're married is definitely not ok. it is highly looked down upon, and is almost cause for being ostrasized. does that make me a bad hindu? no it doesn't. what i did was by choice, and if i am meant to be punished in this lifetime or next, i will be.

society, especially ours, expects you to follow certain norms, and if you don't, it makes you a "bad" person. i don't believe in any of it, and i find it almost hypocritical that the people who make you feel so bad about yourself, and the way you live your life, are the people who have probably done worse in their lives.

a bit off topic.