[garethr484]

hey my gf has a bb and im not gettin one for 2 weeks she is always on the bbm and i was wondering if there is anyway i can see what she is up to on there as we dont see each other all the time and shes always meeting n chattin to her friends on there plzzzzzz help its killin me that she may be cheatin on me and doesnt admit it wen i confront her

[juwaack68]

No, you can't see who she's chatting with or what they are saying.

[ezrunner]

If you suspect then my experience tells me likely she is!

You can't see what she is saying!

I think you should focus on the relationship rather than snooping or end it
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[garethr484]

thank you but she always is updating her status on there her friend keeps tellin me and it makes me wonder thats all i wanted to know if there was some how u could see her status ?

[NJBlackBerry]

Call her. Tell her you suspect she is cheating and want to spy on her BlackBerry Messenger activities.

See how that goes.

[garethr484]

dont think that would go down to well lol. what makes it worse it we have a son together and have been together 7 years now.

[Motorcycle Mama]

Even if you had a BlackBerry, you wouldn't be able to see who she was chatting with or what they were saying.

Sounds like face to face communication is the better answer.

[garethr484]

well if i had 1 least i cud see what her status was as she is always changing it so least i cud see something is there not a pc version u could download?

[juwaack68]

No, there is no PC version.

I suggest counseling.
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[Motorcycle Mama]

And a dictionary. ;)

[Rhyalus]

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