I feel empathy for the guy. And the bashing sucks, because it started out to be a question about a blackberry.. And it was kinda technical...kinda...
Once apon a time, I had a vision. And it wasnt pretty, but it wasnt a hallucination.
And I recall the pain I felt when it was all said and done. Trust is an earned thing, and it shoudnt be given lightly, even if you "Know" someone. I dont even trust my own mother, and for good reason. MY CREDIT!!! So, im sure youre an attractive man, with good qualities, and a decent heart. I say, turn it around... The best way to make someone understand, is to prove it to yourself first. Withdraw from her, slowly, and see what her reaction is..if she comes to you, it might work.. If not, ask her if she wants paper, or plastic.... Then cram her crap into it, get a shower, get dressed, and GO OUT! And remember this, if what shes doing to you, dosent bother her, then it shouldnt bother you...
good luck brother....
|